The Washington Post Addresses “How to Handle Anti-Americanism Abroad” with Insights from International Etiquette Expert Pamela Eyring

In a new Washington Post article by reporter Andrea Sachs, experiences facing US tourists abroad were discussed, highlighting what travelers need to be potentially prepared for if they encounter anti-American sentiment.

One of the experts consulted was Pamela Eyring, president and owner of The Protocol School of Washington.

As noted in the story for travelers who experience anti-American sentiment, “Locals could express their displeasure through their body language, such as avoiding your glance, frowning or walking away. On the extreme end, Eyring said, they could call you names or toss empty bottles, trash or food in your direction.”

While encountering any kind of directly negative attention can be difficult during a trip, it’s also important to not take things personally or assume anything too broadly. Sach writes: 

“When out exploring, tourists might notice anti-American graffiti, outdoor murals or posters, or attire with salty slogans.”

In her response, Eyring shared: “Don’t take it personally or judge one person’s hostile thinking or actions to represent all of their people.”

Important Tip for Travel Anytime: Deflect Political Conversations

When broached with what their perspectives may be about politics back home, US travelers should be diligent to deflect and avoid political opinions. If asked, Eyring recommended in the Washington Post:

“To pair a smile with an equanimous response, such as ‘Every country has its challenges, including the U.S.’

“If that doesn’t work, try redirecting the conversation toward noncontroversial topics like the weather, local attractions or restaurant recommendations. Or ask them about their connection to the destination. Reciprocate the ‘where are you from?’ question.”

Eyring advises to remember that this is also an opportunity to show respect and rise above by focusing on how to always  be a good guest in the country one is visiting:

  • For example, before traveling, learn about their customs and courtesies, taboos, and values.  

  • Practice some polite words in their language to show appreciation and humbleness.  

  • Adhere to their meal or prayer times. 

  • Be self-aware of any of one’s own generalizations or bias to be open to learning more about their culture.  

Additionally, reduce animated body language and avoid loud behaviors.  For instance, don’t use your phone for video calls or on speaker in public places — especially if crowded.  When using your cell phone, talk quietly.  This is important to be aware of since we usually raise our voice level when we are speaking on the phone. Dressing conservatively in public, not wearing flashy USA or political merchandise, sexually revealing attire or clothing with rude statements are also generally wise tips to follow in travels abroad.

 
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